King Charles reportedly made an emotional appeal to Prince William after coming to terms with his own past shortcomings—a moment royal commentators believe marked a turning point for the monarchy.
This revelation comes from a new Channel 5 documentary titled William and Catherine: Putting Family First, which airs this weekend and features insights from various royal experts about this significant shift within the royal family.
Ingrid Seward, editor of Majesty Magazine, explained that the King urged William to prioritize his family and not repeat the choices he had made.
According to the Scottish Daily Express, she recalled Charles saying to his son: “Please don’t make the mistake that I made. I want you to enjoy your family life.” She emphasized how strongly Charles felt about the issue, admitting, “I was so dedicated to duty that I couldn’t make space for family life the way I should have. And that’s what William is doing differently.”
Grant Harrold, who served as King Charles’s butler from 2004 to 2011, described this change in Charles’s attitude as unprecedented.
He remarked, “There’s been a pivotal shift in him—something I never expected to see. I genuinely believe that, for the first time, we have a King who, if it came to it, would put his sons before the crown. That’s never happened before in the history of the monarchy.”
Seward also pointed out that Charles, along with his siblings Princess Anne, Prince Andrew, and Prince Edward, was largely raised by nannies because Queen Elizabeth II and Prince Philip had demanding schedules. This upbringing may have influenced his early approach to parenting.
Prince Harry, in his memoir Spare, shared his own perspective on Charles’s parenting style. He wrote that being raised by an older father created a sense of emotional distance.
“He was more set in his ways and preferred his routines,” Harry explained. “He wasn’t the type of dad who played tag late into the night or tossed a ball for hours. He had once been like that, but not for long.”
Harry added, “Before we were ready, he stopped engaging in that kind of physical play. He just didn’t have the energy or the drive anymore. But I promised myself—I would be different.”